I was a drum major for narcissism, online activism, and goth
No offense to drum majors, but I don’t want this on my epitaph. I’ve never said such a thing.
Just like Martin Luther King, Jr. never said “I was a drum major for justice, peace and righteousness.” Those who knew and worked with Dr. King, i.e. Maya Angelou, say that the shortened quote makes him seem like “an arrogant twit.” To me, it makes it sound like he had an obsession with marching bands.
I simply can’t comprehend the thought process behind misquoting Dr. King on his long-overdue monument. Even worse, the misquote misses the entire point of Dr. King’s Drum Major sermon. The “Drum Major Instinct” speech, given just two months before his assassination, warns us of the impulse to want to be the drum major — the leader of the parade, greater than everyone else. In his sermon, Dr. King encourages us to embrace this instinct but to do so through service and love to others. The most poignant part of the sermon is at the end when he describes his own funeral:
I’d like for somebody to say that day that Martin Luther King, Jr., tried to love somebody.
I want you to say that day that I tried to be right on the war question. (Amen)
I want you to be able to say that day that I did try to feed the hungry. (Yes)
I want you to say on that day that I did try in my life to visit those who were in prison. (Lord)
I want you to say that I tried to love and serve humanity. (Yes)
This whole incident makes me want to print out the entire “Drum Major Instinct” sermon, drive to D.C. and tape it on the monument. Or at least use my online pulpit to encourage others to do this.

